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Worried About Being a Single-Income Family In This Economic Downturn?

It's a discussion that many expectant parents have at some point or another. If you really budgeted and cut back on your expenses, could you survive as a single-income family (Click here) so that Mom or Dad could stay at home with the new baby for a few years? At first glance, it often seems feasible. There won't be as much gas used because the stay-at-home parent in the family won't be commuting to work any longer, you can subtract the cost of lunches out every day and dry cleaning bills for work attire will be cut in half. If a couple is really on top of things, they can put enough money aside in their savings to provide a cushion for the first year or so after the baby arrives. And sure, you'll see various ads for 'jobs for mothers' targeting this demographic, but how many of them are really legitimate?

This arrangement often works out well for families. But sometimes, it does not. Unforeseen circumstances may happen. The sole breadwinner of the family could unexpectedly lose his or her job, or the credit card bills may start piling up just to make ends meet each month. In the book, "The Two Income Trap: Why Middle Class Mothers and Fathers Are Going Broke (Click here to purchase)" authors Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi explore the economic circumstances behind why so many middle-class parents who file for bankruptcy also have children. They typically aren't people who spend frivolously and lay down the credit cards for extravagant purchases -- rather they are just paying for groceries, the mortgage and car payments. Often, when a couple purchases a home, they have two incomes to help support the mortgage payment, but that can change when they start a family. All it takes is one missed house payment to set the wheels of financial crisis in motion.

So where's the happy medium? So many couples long for the chance for one parent to be at home full-time with their children while they are young, yet they fear the loss of that extra paycheck. Today more than ever, there are expenses that add up quickly, such as private school tuition, new uniforms for the soccer team or music lessons. At the same time, large, reputable companies are laying off employees daily and the price of gas continues to skyrocket. Inevitably, something has to give and these caregivers often seek flexibility in part-time work from home jobs, where they can earn money and not have to give up most of their paycheck for childcare.

If you are a family where both parents are working full-time, do you think you could survive on one income during this economic downturn? And if you're a single income family and are now looking for part-time work through an executive recruiting firm such as Mom Corps, what brought you to this point?

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Shonda's Gravatar I will attempt to answer your question. I have been a stay-at-home mom for the past four years. We finally placed my daughter in a private school that is not charging college tuition for a Pre-k student. :-) During my hiatus from the workforce, I have completed an MBA degree and served on a non-profit executive board. I feel its time to return to the workforce for to reasons: (1) my daughter is out of the home for the majority of the day; (2) I need to pursue my own personal interest.

I have enjoyed my time at home with our daughter ,by this I mean---exclusive time with our daughter. All the other stuff like cooking, cleaning, and doing the laundry--I did not and do not enjoy. I could have left all the other factors, like I mentioned previously with a person who is better suited to do them (i.e. chef and housekeeper). Magically, my husband believed that I would enjoy all the other stuff. Ido not. From a personal standpoint it should have been a more detailed conversation bettwen my husband & myself on the expectations of staying at home. Yes, the economic conditions have had an impact on our family. I have become much more frugal with spending (no more $5 cups of coffee, only the occasional cup from the gas station), but overall, I believe that the communication between a husband and a wife about the expectations of being a stay-at-home mom or dad is much more important.

Being a stay-at-home parent, is a blessing. However, since we only have one daughter--I feel the need to pursue my personal amibitions and interests. I guess I am seeking "the balance" that seems so popular these days! :-)
# Posted By Shonda | 12/1/08 2:50 PM
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