Is There Such a Thing as a Low-Calorie Christmas?
Entertaining during the Christmas holidays is always associated with excess. Even this year of self-imposed frugality will not eliminate the inevitable batter-dipped appetizers, cheese platters, meat carving stations and fat-laden dips at "important" parties and platters of homemade lasagna, meatballs, dumplings and even goose at Christmas dinner at home. Bowls of nuts, chocolates and cookies cover all available spaces and festive drinks such as Champagne and eggnog will accompany these holiday delights. Vegetables will be in short supply. Maybe vitamin pills ought to be served along with dessert to make sure that the diners are getting some of the nutrients they need. For reasons that are probably lost in the Stone Age, entertaining guests is always associated with providing more to eat and drink than when the family is dining by itself. I have a cousin who was chattering to me about a holiday dinner she is planning. "I am going to serve a roast," she told me, "but I am also going to have chicken for people who don't like red meat. Then I thought I would also make some Swedish meatballs for people who might not like roasts or chicken."
"Why don't you just serve one main dish," I asked in astonishment. "After all, they (the family) know they are not coming to a restaurant."
"Well, they are my guests," she replied, a little huffily, "and I have to make sure they are well-fed."
I had the uncharitable thought that many of our mutual relatives were probably too well-fed already but I kept it to myself. So what are we to do when confronted with an abundance of holiday food and a plenty of opportunities to eat it? For many this is an irrelevant question.
"Of course I gain weight during Christmas," an irate client told me when I asked her to try to stay on her diet through December. "I'll go back on the diet in January." Others who struggle all year to prevent themselves from gaining weight may forego eating at holiday parties and meals and opt for a bowl of cereal and milk when they come home from the festivities. But there is a middle ground, one that will allow you to enjoy the special holiday foods without gaining weight. Here is what you can do:
1. Never go to a party hungry. This means eating breakfast and lunch and then a small snack before a nighttime dinner or reception.
2. Eat only interesting food. Skip the predictable appetizers; certainly there is nothing special about nuts, cheese dips or batter-dipped zucchini puffs. Stick with foods that are special for the season and not available at other times of the year.
3. Beware of passed hors d'oeuvres. These tasty little delights on trays pack a lot of calories and even though you consume them in seconds, their impact on your scale can last for days.
4. When taking food from a buffet table or serving yourself family style at a holiday meal, take small amounts. Since we all tend to eat what is on our plates, you will eat less if you start with less. If you are hungry (and don't forget, there is dessert coming) you can always have seconds.
5. Alcohol is the stealth calorie producer. It doesn't taste fattening (unless you are drinking eggnog) and it makes you feel good until you try to button your skirt or pants a few days later. Never consume alcoholic beverages because you are thirsty. And if you are drinking (or eating) too much because you are bored, go home and wrap presents.
6. Exercise. Look at your schedule and figure out when you can get 30 minutes of some physical activity in at least three times a week. If it means arriving at a party a little later or leaving a little earlier so you can get up the next morning, do it. Exercise has been shown to reduce fatigue--even if you are exhausted before you begin. Working up a good sweat, and getting your body heated, will revitalize you. Of course, you will also be using up some of those excess calories.
And remember that the bottom line for all these festivities is to enjoy the company of others. I wonder if I tell my cousin that, she will only serve chicken.
Judith Wurtman is the author of "The Serotonin Power Diet".
